because jesus saw the wedding guests trying to sit at honor place, then jesus told this parable to them. If you are invited to a wedding feast, do not sit in the place of honor, because that person might have invite a more respectable person than you, so for the man who invite you and him do not come and say give this place to that person. and you with shame sit on the lowest place. However, if you are invited, go sit in the lowest place. maybe the host will come and say to you, friend please sit in the front. and then you will receive respect in the eyes of all the other guests. for he who exalteth himself, he will be humbled and anyone who humble themselves he will be exalted."